Finding Love 寻找爱

最近看到一位作者对寻找爱人过程的见解。我们寻觅爱的时候其实在渴求五样条件 - 1. 符合美观欣赏标准、2. 生活频率的吻合、3. 沟通性、4. 信赖度、5. 彼此学习的地方
Recently, I came across an author's interpretation of the process of finding a lover. He proposed that we are looking for 5 things -

1. Physical attractiveness, 2. Overlapping lifestyle habits and rhythms, 3. The ability to communicate and understand each other, 4. Trust, 5. The chance to learn from each other.