Tuesday, October 19, 2010

All choices are irreversible =)

As I was on the way home today, I suddenly realized that all the choices we make are irreversible. Since we don't have the power of time travel, any choice we make is irreversible =)

We can choose between being kind and unkind.
We can choose to speak out or to feign ignorance.

We can choose to try very hard on that problem set or to just watch youtube.
We can choose to give a 5 min call to an old friend or just surf facebook.

We can choose to not leave any reserves in training or coast along with the average.

We can choose as our first reaction, anger or a smile.

We can choose to make someone's day special, or we can make it horrible.

We can choose to give snide comments or to give encouragement.

We can choose to listen first or to just start pointing fingers first.

We can choose to eat McDonalds or we can choose to eat something that makes us feel better.

We can choose to go for a slow jog or we can watch some TV.

We can choose to read a book or we can watch a chick flick/rom-com/dude movie(?).

We can choose to buy that awesome new must-have electronic toy or we can think about it.

We can choose to switch off our phones and internet while out with friends, or we can all check Facebook on our iPhones while we are sitting less than 1m from each other.

We can choose to be optimistic or pessimistic.

There are so many choices that we make unconsciously every moment of our lives, and we don't realize that they are all irreversible.

Wednesday, October 13, 2010

Don't Do It

(draft.. not as if I am doing all the following anyway)
Don't do it if..

You think 2 years is too long.

You can't manage your personal finances.
You are not enthusiastic about the idea of working part-time/ consulting/ freelancing/ giving tuition to support your idea.
You think you can ask your parents for business capital.

You cannot say "no".

You don't know what is cashflow and the amount of runway/reserves you need.

You think school is useless.

You cannot build eigencourses.

You think you have an idea.

You can't summarize any idea in 1 sentence so simple anybody (your mum) can understand.
You hate selling.
You've never sold anything in your life before.

You are not a hardcore tech/ marketing or learning intensively on how to be.
You don't like reading.
You can't make yourself learn how to talk to people from other backgrounds and disciplines with different ways of solving/looking at the same problem and synthesizing all the approaches coherently.
You think learning something you've never seen before in your life is painful.

You think you will hate the people you're going to work with. (You will, at certain points in time. They will most definitely hate your guts too. =) )
You think you will lose your friendships.

You have a significant other half who does not understand/ support. (One will give way. I'm not sure which will survive.)

You have no sounding boards/ mentors/ network.

You like home-runs and only home-runs.

You have a backup plan.

You do not like the contrarian investment philosophy.

You don't think you can do four times as much work in one half of the time an average person takes.

You cannot focus like a maniac.

You've never read 80/20, 4 hour work week and applied it on a daily basis.

You think being a boss/CEO is a chillax job.

You do not like looking through legal documents, tax forms, write website copy, do product mockups and 1 gazillion other nitty-gritty things that will suck your time and energy.

You want to have an active social life and paaaaaaaaaaaarrrrtttyyyyyy...

You must have the latest Apple product/ tech gizmo/ fashion accessory.
You think a 15K Rolex watch makes you look professional.

You think you will make a million in 1 year.
You want to drive a sports car, own a private property and eat at expensive restaurants all the time before you're 30.

You think you are the world's biggest genius and the world should shower you with money.

You think you are so smart that good advice just flies over your head (you're probably sinking into a self-created hole..).

You are not as good as finishing as you are at starting.

You never read anything on behavioral economics and psychology.

You like to make well-informed, thoroughly researched and over-analyzed decisions with perfect knowledge of markets, customers and trends.

You don't think of money as an asset, or you don't understand why you need a certain amount of money to do certain stuff.

You don't have some music you listen to, that always gives you an energy boost or calms you down.

You have some hobbies that are totally unrelated to it.

You don't have close friends who have known you since young.

You don't like solving problems.

You don't like people.

You don't have a island to disappear to.

You cannot find humour in any situation =)

You are too optimistic or too pessimistic.

You don't like to say "sorry" to your team and work to make up for it.

You cannot acknowledge that different people pull different weights at different stages.

You are currently not exercising enough.
You are not eating healthily.

You don't believe in karma.

You don't have something spiritual to believe in.

Friday, October 8, 2010

Book - "Running for my Life" by Ray Zahab

Just finished reading a short but nice book titled "Running for my Life".
An ultra-marathoner, Ray Zahab, describes how running changed his aimless life as a chronic smoker. Through ultramarathons (160km desert runs, 333km runs, running in the Artic, runs in the Amazon jungle... ), he talks about failing badly, running through all the interesting places he competes in and the warmness of the hard-as-nails people who run as passionately as him. Through running, besides discovering his life's purpose, he found love too.

He describes running as entering a strangle peaceful state. When running, he just focuses on putting one foot in front of the other, maintaining smooth breathing, just listening to his mp3s and being alone with his thoughts.

Weird how running parallels life, the ultimate marathon.


Tuesday, October 5, 2010

Mdm Kwa Geok Choo

I guess it's time that people knew her as Mdm Kwa Geok Choo, and not Mrs Lee Kuan Yew.

Caught the mini-documentary on her on TV, and it was a series of flashbacks across Singapore's history imbued with a personal touch. It was no longer about dates, facts and places. It was about people's lives and struggles.

The stories of small nations are stories of individual lives, weaving a tapestry of threads, forming a canvas of history through their daily triumphs and failures.

Intelligence, humility, fierce intolerance for corruption, warmness, genuine concern for people, elegance, witty, hardworking, strength, successful balancing of career and family (And smart businesswoman, look at the water agreements).

One of the most shocking photographs I saw today (TODAY, 5 Oct 2010) was of PM Lee Hsien Loong and his brother, Mr Lee Hsien Yang in mourning attire. It was simply too surreal.

There was a scene in the documentary when Mdm Kwa Geok Choo stood up and wiped the sweat off MM Lee Kuan Yew's forehead, with MM Lee Kuan Yew protesting mildly that it did not matter. Admittedly, she was probably the only one who dared to, but for me, that was the best moment of the documentary.

I read before that you are the average of the people you spend the most time with.
MM Lee Kuan Yew is a lucky man indeed.

Tuesday, September 28, 2010

The Font Story behind Orchard Road Logos

Have you ever wondered what is the font used in some of the logos you see? Well, that thought occurred to me one day while I was passing by Orchard.

From what I know, most of the fonts we see everyday commercially, on the web or while reading can be divided in Serifs (Times New Roman), San Serif (Arial, Helvetica, Futura, Verdana) and Script (those cursive looking letters).
(http://www.adobe.com/type/browser/classifications.html)

I've guessed some of them and I'm pretty sure I'm wrong for most of them. However, I've intended this post as more of a reference when you are designing your own logo, posters, presentations and titles.

By choosing a good font, you might be able to convey a certain image (like the overly expensive luxury brands here =) ).

Serif
Armani - Bodoni

GAP - Spire Regular

Prada - Engravers' SB

Sans Serif
BCBG - Looks a bit like Avant Garde, Engraver's Gothic
Bread & Butter - Frutiger, Univers, Gill Sans

Chanel - Avenir, Akzidenz Grotesk, Engraver's Gothic
Louis Vutton - Futura Medium
Takashimaya - Looks a bit like Rockwell

Isetan - Meta, Futura
ALDO - Looks similar to the font used for BCBG, maybe Engraver's Gothic


Marc Jacobs - Sackers Gothic Medium, or something similar to the BCBG, ALDO

Ngee Ann City - Arial? (Personally, it looks a bit dated..)

Script & Misc
ION Orchard - Comic Sans? VAG Rounded
Salvatore Ferragamo - Some custom script

For Fun

References
Basics of Typography
http://designshack.co.uk/articles/typography/8-rules-for-creating-effective-typography

If you have Illustrator, you can design some pretty nice text
http://designshack.co.uk/articles/graphics/an-in-depth-guide-to-working-with-typography-in-illustrator

This is a pretty good introduction to some classic fonts: http://www.blog.spoongraphics.co.uk/articles/25-classic-fonts-that-will-last-a-whole-design-career

(Did this while waiting to install COMSOL.. 8 more GB to go.. =p )

Sunday, September 26, 2010

AAAAR - Why do people "screw up" and projects fail in organizations?

I screw up all the time, so I try to not repeat my mistakes as much as possible for the sanity of my friends.

Some of the ideas I've read about project management have percolated in my mind recently.

It seems to me that success of a project depends on the level of
  • Authority
  • Accountability
  • Autonomy
  • Ability
  • Responsibility
among the people in the team.

Imagine that you are responsible for the outcome of a project, but you are given insufficient authority, are not held accountable, do not possess the required ability and do not enjoy sufficient autonomy. Sounds like a recipe for failure..

Inappropriate levels of any of the five parameters will increase the chances of the project failing.

Tuesday, August 31, 2010

7 gifts

A fairy godmother blessed her child with the following 7 gifts:
To have a smile as warm as the sun
To have thoughts as pure as a mountain stream
To have wisdom as deep as the ocean
To have principles as strong as a mountain
To have regrets as heavy as the wind
To have a mind as open as the sky
To live a life passing on these gifts to the people around you.

The kid decided to dedicate a day of each week to cultivating each gift, with Sunday being a day of reflection.

Wednesday, August 4, 2010

Just watched "Precious"

Just watched "Precious" with Jia Mein . It's funny that the film feels contrived in the moments when it tries to be "Hollywood"-like inspirational and the cheesy fantasy scenes. For people who disliked it, I guess people nowadays watch films to enter a fantasy. If a film is too realistic, it cuts too close to home to be comfortableThe darkness in the film is just a contrast to the strength of the characters.

Tuesday, August 3, 2010

Ze Passion Talk

I guess after the passion talk (in retrospect, it was really funny to have the 3 of us talk over Skype to a chat window representing HP.. should have taken a photo!), all of us really want to do 3 things.

Solve real problems for businesses and the world.
Build, deploy and improve systems involving technology, engineering and people.
Create an sustainable empire and retire at 30~35 years old.

In other words, we have a Genghis Khan, 2 hackers and 1 Stoicist dreamer =)

Sunday, August 1, 2010

My tuition experience today - irritation and joy

I feel like starting by introducing this article (http://www.readingrockets.org/article/199).
It's called "Reaching Rommel" by Tyler Currie. She describes how she used the power of individual attention to teach Rommel, an illiterate kid, how to read. It will take you around 10 minutes to read it, but it's a nice story for people who are interested in teaching and communicating with people.

I deviously employed this method (headfake!) in tuition today to my new student (replace "student" with "guinea pig").

The lesson started ominously. I felt irritation when my new tuition kid described the blase way that her teacher went through a block test question. He simply said that the question was similar to the one in the notes, and that the class could refer to it in order to understand how to solve it. Well, my tuition kid did not know how to do the question, along with the similarly stumped majority of the class (gnashing of teeth..).

Oh well, we selected a different topic and started. I tried to explain the basics (definitions and formulae) slowly and clearly using the simplest words I could find. I drew some graphs and used some analogies from everyday life. I explained some techniques for solving problems.

We then went through a previously unsolvable block test question for 40 mins. Next, we chose a difficult "three smiley face" question from the notes (I kind of like how the school chooses 3 smiley faces to represent difficult questions..) (Obviously, I'm influenced by a certain prof =) ).

5 minutes passed.

I see her scribbling, making mistakes and correcting them, solving the unknowns. In fact, I was a bit lost following her working (students nowadays use graphic calculators.. ).

"Ey.. is it like this?"

The "ah-ha" moment is doubly "shiok" when you make someone go "ah-ha".

I have not given much tuition over the years, but I am slowly observing some common behavioral trends among supposedly weak students.

They place their handphones beside them during tuition and sometimes check their sms-es (but they don't reply my sms-es within a day when I ask them to tell me how's their studying progress.. ). Immediately after tuition, they inadvertently plonk themselves next to their computer. In case you get your hopes high, they are not doing research on Wikipedia... (I know Wikipedia is only good as a convenient reference.)

They also do not have much basics. They don't remember the definitions, formulae and examples in the notes. I'm not certain whether this is due to the teacher not covering it enough, or whether this is an aftereffect of having goldfish memory from the current technology trends. I term this the "flush after test" syndrome (I'm guilty too!).

They also don't practise enough, or at least, until they are able to solve them without referring too much to the notes.

They are also rather smart (in fact, probably much smarter than me, regardless of the school they are in). Often, they can solve questions in the second hour of the session, without much help, by themselves. I'm probably one of the most horrible people at explaining stuff. I don't think I did anything special. All I did was to to explain the curriculum again.

The funny thing is, they will probably be smarter without their television, computers and handphones.

Hmm.. Suddenly, I find tuition quite fun (besides the additional $$) =) They are experiment subjects! (Sorry, kids!)